meal planning made easier

It all started when we got married. I thought I was pretty good in the kitchen. My parents would be out of the country for a few months of the year, and I immediately took on the role of “mother”. I came up with meal plans, made shopping lists, went grocery shopping, and came home to prepare dinner for my siblings. My brothers raved about how great a cook I was to my mom. My oldest brother even said privately to my mom that he thought I was getting to be just as good as her, the highest compliment anyone can give another in our family.

Like I said, I thought I was pretty good in the kitchen.

But nothing equals living on your own, cooking for yourself and your husband. Suddenly, it’s not just holding on until your mother can come back and take over the job. It’s seeing the cooking you do today as going on forever, or for the next 30-40 years, or however long we’ll live. I can’t lie, it was scary.

Scary, but exciting.

Suddenly, I was the one who had to make sure that we were getting our proper nutritional intake of healthy, wholesome foods. I was the one who had to ensure that what we ate didn’t consist solely of meat and carbs, but also of fruits, vegetables, greens, and fish. What’s more, I had to make it interesting. Suddenly, I was seeing food in a whole new way, where eating out was not funner than making dinner myself, where every dinner was connected to the one before it and the one after it in a bigger picture than just getting through our hunger at dinnertime.

This was what inspired my weekly meal plans. On our fridge hangs our best purchase in our apartment to date– a small “white board” (our’s is actually one of those new, stainless steel looking ones!). I didn’t know why I bought it within the first week of moving in, except that I really like to doodle. I thought it would save me a lot of paper because I would just scribble reminders to myself on that instead of on post-its, so I hung it on the frige (with adhesive tape) because naturally, that’s where I go every morning and evening. Very early on, it became where I wrote things that I needed to get from the grocery store, so I wouldn’t forget. Then I started writing random meals that popped into my head that I felt like eating that week. Soon, that developed into a linear progression of meals, which I adjusted based on what I had in the fridge. From there, I added the names of the week, and it became the center of my cooking universe, my weekly meal plan.

If you’re looking to make your own, it’s really simple and actually saves you a lot of stress in the kitchen because you always know what you’re making for dinner. It can be a daunting task at first, but so worth the time it takes to get used to it at the beginning.

Here’s how to go about making your own weekly plan:
1- Post a small white board on your fridge. Trust me, it has to be on the fridge because that’s where you begin all your cooking, right?

2- Write the names of the week, vertically or horizontally. I personally find I have a lot more space to write long food names and ingredients if it’s a vertical list, but this is up to you.

3- Plan out your weekly nutritional goals. I believe that we should have fish once a week, and a vegetarian meal once or twice a week. One day is leftovers, and the rest are meat and chicken. That’s seven days, done.

4- Here’s the part where you do what feels comfortable to you. I like to plan my specific meals after I go grocery shopping so I can see what’s in the fridge and go from there. However, I know a lot of people may find that stressful because then they don’t know what they’re looking for in the supermarket. SO! Do what you like. I like to buy whatever’s on sale or whatever looks good to me, something interesting every week, and then either think of meal ideas in the supermarket or come home, do my meal plan based on original ideas I may have or through a quick search on my favourite recipe sites (like, www.foodtv.com, www.jamieoliver.com, www.allrecipes.com) for inspiration.

5- If you work, this is where you can plan meals around what time you’ll be  home. I’m a substitute teacher, so some days I’m home and some days I work, coming home at different times depending on the school. I plan the complexity of meals according to the time I’ll be home. So if I know I’m going to be at a school that requires me to come home at around dinnertime, so I don’t have much time to get the food on the table, I plan to make a really simple meal, or I make it the night before (or at least, prep it as much as possible), so there’s little to do when I get home tired and hungry.

6- Leave a corner for your grocery list. If you find you’re out of shampoo or onions or salt, you don’t want to forget these essentials the next time you’re shopping, so write it down and you’ll see it every single day which makes remembering easier.

And that’s it. I credit this weekly meal plan to getting much better in the kitchen, to expanding my ideas on dinner, and to trying out new, exciting things that have become house favourites. It all starts with a little planning.

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03 2010

it’s not what I would have imagined for myself

But I must admit, I’m beginning to enjoy the half-day Pre-Kindergarten gig. It’s so low key. The kids don’t always listen, but there isn’t a whole lot to do, so it’s okay if they don’t! And half the morning is taken up by snack time and bathroom breaks, so I’m just a glorified babysitter.

That gets to go home at 11:30 every day. This is the life.

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17

11 2009

battle of the blades finale

Craig Simpson and Jamie SaleChampion of 2009 Battle of the Blades: Jamie Salé and Craig Simpson!

I was personally rooting for the Canadiens player, Stéphane Richer, but they were more likable anyway!

16

11 2009

too. tired. to. post.

This posting everyday is exhausting!!

15

11 2009

never thought I would care but…

… it was an amazing game. Egypt’s going to the World Cup, baby! (we hope so, anyway!)

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11 2009

weekdays are for working

One unfortunate consequence of working every day is that the house suffers. Laundry doesn’t get folded, the kitchen isn’t used with love but with impatience, and dust piles high on top of side tables, dressers, and nightstands.

I would but I could stay at home and tend to my domain.

12

11 2009

a revelation

I used to think teachers of younger grades have it easier in some ways– the content is obviously easier, the kids think you know everything, and everything takes a long time to do, so you have less time to lesson plan for.

But while that may be true, the behavioural crap they have to put up with gives me a newfound respect for them. I personally have no patience for crying children, name-calling and yes, tattle-taling. After only one day in a grade 2 classroom, I want to run screaming.

Unfortunately, I’ve already (pre)-committed to another day of chaos. God help me.

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11 2009

serves me right

On my last job in this school, a couple of kids wanted to know if I was a Habs fan. Now, I grew up in Montreal, so my first exposure to hockey was in the home of the Montreal Canadiens.

Not that I really cared, though.

But then I moved to Toronto and married an avid Leafs fan, one who became “depressed” when the Leafs lost, who screamed criticisms during games and howled when they scored. Yep, one of those men.

So when they asked me if I was a Habs fan, I felt an obligation to my husband, despite the embarrassment of claiming to be a Leafs fan.

That was a few weeks ago.

Today, I sat in my classroom at recess, reading. The boys I had spoken to noticed me behind the closed door. I heard a tap tap at the door and there they were, goading me with a paper pressed against the glass window of the door, saying LEAFS SUCK.  I saw laughing, taunting faces at the door, one of them screaming it out to the hurrah of the crowd.

In retrospect, I should’ve stayed quiet.

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10

11 2009

a busy day off

Even though I didn’t go to work today, I still feel exhausted. So much to do, so little time!

And now I’m bracing myself for a week of work. At least I know which schools I’m going to and when. My mind is trained– I wake up at 6:30am every weekday morning, waiting for that phone call. I hate that phone call, but when it comes, I diligently get out of bed and prepare for work.

I guess it’s no different than any other job.

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11 2009

wrong, oh so wrong

I was wrong. So so WRONG.

At least I admit it.

I’ll say it again– I was totally and completely wrong.

Coming into this NaBloPoMo challenge, I WRONGLY assumed that it would be easy. My life is interesting, right? And if it isn’t, just put some filler material and it’ll all be ok. Right?

Wrong.

Along the way, the panic of having to post every single day makes even the thought of updating or working on your site completely repulsive.

(Also, I must admit, I’ve become addicted to the new Facebook app “Farmville”. Even if I try to explain the appeal, I couldn’t. In theory, it’s a waste of time– you grow stuff and you add neighbours and advance levels because of it, but there’s no direct competition. You couldn’t wipe our your neighbour in any way or take land away from others by expanding your land. It’s just creating your own farm and.. decorating it. All I can think about is whether my crops are ready to be harvested, because we wouldn’t want them to wither away and die before they’re harvested, no! This addiction, it’ll pass. I promise?)

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11 2009